Many wives resort to dispute, vexation, and using the points of weakness at men to control them and achieve their demands. In fact, this approach may have been succeeded in past generation but its consequences are bad in the current circumstances. A husband may be of bad temper and does not know how to deal with the people and this shortage can easily be handled by the softness of his wife and her kind treatment. In contrast, a husband may be diplomatic and elegant in dealing others, but the harshness of his wife may distort this beautiful image.
Hence, a wife should work hard to deserve a high status if her husband reaches the summit of success and fame after 10 or 20 or 30 years. If she does not consider taste and the rules of courtesy in her dealings, she has to train herself for respecting everyone she meets to get the joy she expects. If circumstances stood as a barrier between her and high education, she can make up what she missed by reading and mixture with cultivated women.
Dispute is an emotional destructive disease but its cure is easy which is a wife should train herself for not asking anything from her husband, but is she needed to do so, she may ask that kindly and with courtesy because persistence may bring about an opposite result.
At the same time, a wife should always smile at her husband and her speech should be joyful. It is better that a wife records anything that hurts her husband even if she does not believe that it is hurting. There is no harm that she reviews with her husband the things which he hates after his nervous calm down.
It was reported in the book of "How to make a fortune, success, and leadership:" Once I attended a public meeting and I sat beside one of socialists whom I asked:
How can a wife help her wife to succeed in his work?
He said: She can do that easily if she loves him then does not interfere in his work.
In fact, many wives do not help their husbands by continuing interference in their works.
The first function of a wife is to take care of the things that brings about happiness to her husband and others, and to always recall that participation in any work -even a morsel or an idea- is one of the most important things that connect people together. So, she has to be keen to share her husband's hobbies, attitudes, and inclinations even if that will lead to sacrifices.
So, a wife should prepare a good atmosphere to her husband to help him renew his activity and work every morning with joy and hope; and this is the most important things a wife should do.
No matter how a husband loves his work, his nervous may get tense and exhausted due to work, and the function of the house is to relieve this stress and tension.
A wife also should serve meals in their due times and to know what he likes and does not like, and exert efforts to provide him with the things he loves.
Most men eat more than it should, particularly in middle age, so a wife should set a wise system to make her husband avoid fatness which causes sickness.
She should be keen that her husband eats well without anything that causes hastiness or tension.
A wife should make sure that husband get enough rest times and to spend his vacations outdoors in an atmosphere that is full of joy and happiness.
If a wife does so, she will help her husband, speed up his success, and fill her home with happiness and joy.
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