How can I live as a Muslim woman, a mother, a wife, and a daughter?

As-salamu `Alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh (May Allah's Peace, Mercy, and Blessings be upon you!)

You need to rearrange your papers.

In the beginning, you have to set your goals so as to have a clear vision about your objectives in life. Do not burden yourself with much liabilities.

Do not try to achieve all your goals at once, but seek them one by one.

* Evaluate your previous life and identify the points of weakness and defects to understand yourself and avoid them in the future.

* Identify your capabilities and identify the points of power and weakness to start from that point.

* Understand your reality and conditions to be able to deal with them. Know that each stage is different from the other.

You may find yourself exhausted and busy with your children and their needs, so do not make that frustrates you because every phase has its own goals and needs that needs full focus.

* Arrange your goals and actions according to the most important downwards because that will help you do them one by one in a perfect manner.

* Keep away from all negative factors that may hinder you and untie all the chains that might keep you away from the things which please Allah.

* Establish good and righteous relationships with pious people, religious lessons, and valuable books to help you when you feel weakness or your vigor decreases.

* Invoke Allah frequently and seek His Forgiveness to give you power and help.

* Be sure that as long as you are human, you shall feel weakness sometimes and power other times but what is important is to restrain your desires and try to promote them to the best.

May Allah grant you success and make you beneficial!