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My fiancé wants to go back to me

Dr. Yasir Bakkar

Published On: 26/11/2013 A.D. - 22/1/1435 H.   Visited: 7508 times     


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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

My fiancé called me and informed me that he wanted to go back to me provided that I tell my father's relative (who was the cause to know each other) that I love my fiancé. I refused and said to him: If you want to go back to me, I can speak to my father and convince him, but my fiancé refused and asked me not to tell him. He asked me to speak to my father's relative to beautify his image before him because he has become low in his eyes, but I refused and considered it an insult to my father.

Am I right or he is?

I want the answer, taking into consideration that I always consult you about my problems, kindly review my letters which I sent before and answer me.

May Allah reward you the best!

Answer

Dear Muslim sister, you are always welcome to Alukah Website.

Even after reviewing your letters I cannot give an opinion about your fiancé and his problems, but I want you to review my answers because I mentioned what is important to help you taking the correct decision.

Although I do not know more information about the current problem, I think that his persistence that you speak to your father's relative and make it a priority for him and more important than anything else, this is weird and a negative mark undoubtedly.

If I were in your shoe, I would have searched for a wise person in the family to consult him and I would have stuck to your father's opinion because he has more experience and keener to the interests of his daughter, moreover I would have stopped talking to that person no matter what it costs.

Again, I want you to think carefully and re-evaluate that person, not based on small situations but with a thoroughly picture and based on the analysis of your relatives and close people who are truthful.

May Allah guide you to goodness, and may Allah guide you to the Straight Path.



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