Dialogue and maintaining home secrets

Maintaining home secrets:

A man was asked about the reason of his disagreement with his wife, and he said: Woe to you, I would never reveal the secrets of my home. When he divorced her, he was asked: Why did you divorce your wife?

He said: Woe to you! She is a strange women to me, why should I speak about her?

Keeping family secrets is one of the most important causes for its continuation and stability because a man who does not fear for his wife and does not maintain the secrets of his home is the worst of all people in the sight of Allah (may He be Exalted). It was reported in the Prophetic Hadith that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "The most evil of the people to Allah on the Day of Resurrection will be the man who consorts with his wife and then publicizes her secret."[1]

Do not wake up the dead:

Some husbands do not master making dialogue with their wives where neither a living nor a dead is safe of him. He shouts and curses the dead of his wife even before he is born as if his wife is the one who chose them and chose their behavior and actions. Then his wife starts weeping and screaming. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "Mention the good merits of your dead and do not mention their bad ones."[2] Leave the past with its sorrows, reap its fruits, water your marital relationship with love and maintain it with intimacy so as the present would develop it for you and you find it in the future.