My divorcer destroys my life

I feel pity for you. It is hard to be under continuous psychological pressure and pursuit without finding someone to defend you or stand by your side.

My dear sister, remember that Allah is with you second by second, so resort to Him, invoke Him, and feel that He is with you, for He is greater and more powerful than any creature.

All the actions of your husband do not exceed psychological pain through chasing and pressure. Try to protect yourself by making sure that you are right and do not pay attention to him, and a time shall come when he feels tired.

Focus on your behavior and hold yourself accountable: Are you of bad-manner as he claims? If you are not, be sure that his speech shall not harm you in any way by the will of Allah.

Act from a point of strength because he does not have anything real but talking. Be firm and strong when he transgresses your rights such as coming to your workplace to defame you or do any improper action.

Call the police to stop him, but it is important to gather up yourself and do not make you come out of control. Keep a proof to give it to the police but be careful. Beware of challenging him because women are always weaker than men, therefore act wisely and secretly as much as possible.

Search for a wise person to consult him and to stand by your side with practical procedures to stop him.

The most important is not to stop invocations and seeking help with Allah because all earth's powers are nothing in compare to His Power; and the invocation of an oppressed person can open the gates of heavens and its effect is not hidden.

We thank you for your confidence, we hope that we can give you a powerful solution, but remember that we do not have the solution, we only help you to find it.

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My Allah help you, and grant you wisdom, power, and guidance!