My husband wants me a lesbian!

All praise be to Allah, and peace be upon the Messenger of Allah, upon his family, his Companions, and those who follow him.

Praise be to Allah who granted you repentance, but you must tell your husband the truth and that you are not a lesbian. You should not have accused yourself of this deniable act, but thanks to Allah who showed you the truth. Take a lesson for the future, for every sin starts with a devilish notion then turns into an idea and lust until it becomes a determination and man falls into forbidden things starting from sexual fantasies up to watching sex movies until the obscenity becomes trivial and man falls into something bigger, may Allah protect you and us from that.

So, seek the help of Allah, strengthen your relationship with Him by performing obligatory duties in their proper times, and do much righteous deeds and invoke Him, for He is the Guide and the Helper. "But Sufficient is your Lord as a Guide and Helper."[Surat Al Furqan: 31].

Every science should have a start and every action should have a power and both must be sought from Allah, for no might nor strength save in Allah, and no resort or way out but through Him.

As for your husband, start to speak openly with him and tell him that you are no longer capable of enduring this. Tell him that his forbidden actions shall affect the house and children, and that he must repent to Allah and abandon these actions. You must also tell him that the continuation of your marriage is connected by his repentance and that needs power and patience from both of you, restraining oneself, fearing Allah, and asking for His Help.

I ask Allah to reform your husband and to help you with your husband.