Marriage in the family's house

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I think your intuition is true; using the family's properties may be a potential sticking point which may flare up at any time whether there or there are not any troublemakers in the family.

Therefore, it is useful to investigate the matter clearly and the stances of family members. What is the reason which makes the family members overlook the use of the family's house?! There could be many reasons such as their financial sufficiency, your fiancé’s undertaking to his mother, and bearing the burden of the family or other reasons.

It is important that you pay attention to this issue and to have a direct and open dialogue with your fiancé about this matter without intervening in the family affairs.

Maintain your good treatment with everyone as you were commanded by your religion: With kindness, manner, and affection, and remember that kindness beautifies everything.

May Allah guide you to the best and perfect your marriage!

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