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What happens after the end of love?!

Stella Sixto Martin

Published On: 14/12/2013 A.D. - 10/2/1435 H.   Visited: 7234 times     


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One of the major facts is that the look of men and women to the nature of problems is not the same because the mental composition of each is different. Although each of them part of human kind and none of each came from a different planet, their views regarding humanitarian and life issues are not the same.

It is an instinctive matter since the beginning of creation, therefore in order that each of them can discuss matters properly, they have to put themselves in the shoes of others to be able to understand his sufferings and feelings.

The feeling of love, which means the desire to possess the other, is one of the emotions that differ in them.

To me, I do not believe at all - as a woman - in the principle that says "a loving person dedicates himself for the service of his beloved." Moreover, I do not believe in the participation principle and that a person can distribute his love between two persons, but I think that division generates hatred and malice because of the division i.e., taking away a beloved one from his or her spouse.

Therefore, my point of view away from economic issues and child care is that man should respect the love which he feels or that he used to feel. Part of Allah's Mercy to us is that Islam facilitated the matter of divorce, so if love ends for a reason or another, man has to make a room for a woman to choose another way as she has the right to ask her husband to choose another way if she wills. Likewise, if a husband wants to choose another way, he has the right to do so without leaving themselves to life to act as it wills. "But if they separate (by divorce), Allah will provide abundance for everyone of them from His Bounty. And Allah is Ever All-Sufficient for His creatures' need, All-Wise." [Surat An-Nisa': 130]. There is another option which is to try with his life mate to make their wish come true and stay together until the end of life.



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