girls and house management

When a girl reaches the age of marriage, she starts to learn many things about marriage and anything related to a sound family relationship. She becomes more ready whenever she is about to achieve that dream, but girls forget in most cases or do not show interest in the most important arts of marital life which is the art of management.

Marriage does not mean that you do some reciprocal duties and rights.

It is a new home and a new life, therefore a girl should know how to manage a house, how to set down some unwritten rules to the house, how to run the relationship among the family members, and how to fill the house with happiness and quietness even with the appearance of new variables such as: The coming of a new member, the travel of the husband, and the sickness of one of them.

Of her good management of her home is to know how to develop the performance of the family and add new things to her life and the life of her family without causing a problem, in addition to other things which she has to know in order to manage a happy house that is in harmony with the changes of life.

It is awful to see new families that have been recently established but soon they collapse despite the mutual love between the spouses, and that is for many reasons, of which: The bad management of the house and inability to adapt and bend a little before the coming storm of anger or fight until it abates.

Our girls should have strong faith in the importance of the house which will be established and that new family which they shall build, so they have to manage the house well and allow their families to live in balance and peace of mind.

We are in dire need to houses that are based on wisdom, understanding, and well-management: Houses know how to overcome crises and how to make joys. Houses like oases to which a person resorts for relaxation and comfort to get back to work with active hearts and minds because these hearts and minds will come back at the end of the day to a nice warm oasis.

We need houses to be like factories in which straight and balanced hearts are raised so as not to get lost from the Straight Path.

It is a whisper in the ear of every girl who is able to challenge and say with a loud voice:
That will be my home.