My husband complains about my body

Wa `Alaykumus-Salam war-Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh (peace be upon you).

Unfortunately, these problems are often repeated and some husbands think that they can shape their wives as they want, forgetting that they chose and accepted them at the beginning of marriage with that shape.

Be firm and loving to your husband, and beware not to be convinced with his words in order not to be frustrated without any fault.

He chose you and he has to bear the consequences of his choice. Your weight is consistent with your tallness, and I do not know whether he deliberately frustrates you or he truly does not like your shape?

Be confident, try to compensate that in other matters, and try to satisfy his sexual desire.

Let it be known that body is not the measurement for satisfaction but consistency and skill that are formed with time, experience, and training between spouses.

Perhaps that is a trick in order not to note his problems and faults, so he searches for your faults to frustrate you or he is upset with you for a reason and he takes revenge by that way.

Understanding the reason may help you but it is very important not to get frustrated and try to speak with him to reach a satisfactory solution to get away from psychological pressures and focus on what you already have.

Search for what pleases him and makes your marital life happy. Be firm with him in order not to repeat that attitude again, make him feel it hurts you and be careful not to make things get worse.

Do not forget the impact of invocation, and seek the reward from Allah. May Allah help, protect your family, and grant you strength and ability.

May Allah make you happy with your husband and reform things between you.