Should I abandon marriage to take care of my mother and brethren?

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First, thank you for your kind feelings that characterize the righteous servants of Allah from others. This is the rearing and manners of Islam that have changed the face of the world since the mission of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) until now.

In such situations, I call whoever consults me to be patient when dealing with events because flexibility prevents us from taking decisive decisions and gives us a chance every morning to review our situations and make sure that they go the right way without petrifaction.

This is what I am calling you to do in the middle of these critical conditions which you are suffering. However, the question remains: Will your marriage be a hindrance to the marriage of your brethren? Will the refusal of marriage be helping to them? There is no final answer fits all the people, so study your matter well and rationally and avoid the emotional side which interferes in final decisions and causes them to be irrational.

You are ready to sacrifice but do not sacrifice while you can gain all the benefits then there will be no meaning for sacrifice.

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