My husband and his intimate relations

In fact, the main reason for husbands' cheat on their wives is troubles in their marital relation, so search in yourself for the defects and exert efforts in fixing them. In the same time, rebuke your husband for these relations, and follow these points:

1- Dress up for your husband and treat him kindly.

2- Force your husband to think about you all the time.

3- Know the things which your husband loves and do them frequently and avoid the things he hates.

4- Sit with your husband and speak frankly with him to know the positives and the negatives in your relationship, and work to reinforce positives and diminish negatives.

5- Busy your husband with the matters of your children, make him solve them, and remind him that he is the role model, so they should see him in the best image and they should see every good action and saying from him.

6- You have to bring some useful Islamic tapes and Da`wah books which speak about the marital rights and the bad consequences resulting from ignoring them.

7- You have to strengthen the relationship between you and Allah so as to reform all your affairs.

8- Send messages to those women whom your husband knows [A message from unknown sender] that their matter has been exposed and if they do not stop, they shall be exposed in public; you should do the same with your husband.

9- You have to be calm, control yourself, and be wise when dealing with him. Remind him of your love, your children, and your future. Beware of the break down and scolding, but you have to be good, treat him kindly, and deny what he did. Explain your love and pity for him and for the family.

10- Tell some of your family who are characterized by wisdom in dealing with these matters or some of his family such as a father, a mother, a brother, or someone else who has a positive effect on him.

11- If your husband persists and shows stubbornness, it is up to you whether to continue marriage or ask for divorce.

12- Keep to invoking Allah (Glory be to Him) to guide you to the best solution and to reform your affairs.