Children all around us

Children, beautiful world, which is full of joy and laughter and  adds intimacy and affability to the atmosphere as well as spreads joy all over the place, is a special world by its own. They have their way in expression and style in life, and from them we learn a lot if we watch their behaviors.

No doubt that their ears are attentive to what is going on around them even while they are in the middle of play. Their eyes look at everything that go around because they watch our behaviors, criticize, comment, and dislike what is against nature or against the rules which they are taught by their teachers, parents, or a relative. They analyze these actions with the little information and advices they have in minds, but surprisingly they find some elder people support that act and laugh at it.

A child may go to his parents and ask: Someone did such and such; is this right or wrong? Here, the parents feel embarrass: Yes, no; trying to change the subject. A child surrounds his parents with questions but his parents make up false excuses to justify the attitude that perhaps was committed by his grandfather or neighbors or even by them. However, a child keeps on asking questions: O father, have not you told me that this action is shameful and it is not appropriate to do? The father is surprised by the sayings of his son and wonders how such a little boy asks such questions, and tries to change the subject or pretend to be busy or come up with something new to distract his child from the answer. A child may walk away and the ignorant father thinks that he won and did well when he distracted his son; forgetting that the situation may have affected the psychology of the child badly without even knowing because he does not know how to deal with that wonderful childish world.