The personality of my husband

Welcome my dear!

What is the nature of the love story which gathered you with your husband?

Have you been married before?

Did you know about his work before marriage?

Unfortunately, there are certain matters make it obligatory to deal with the opposite sex, such as: medicine, nursing, and legal profession.

Many women resort to lawyers to ask for a divorce, a Khul` (women's asking for divorce from a judge in return of repaying the dower to the husband), nursing children, or other matters.

According to the nature of these cases, a lawyer interferes in personal matters pertaining to the client which may end up to knowing the finest details.

By nature, a lawyer has a persuasive discourse and knows how to pick up his words and how to arrange sentences which makes him attractive to many. He is the only one who can separate his professional and personal relationships.

Is your husband's relations with women are just professional or emotional?

My dear, jealousy is something destructive to any beautiful relationship if it exceeds the normal limit, so you have to deal with it very wisely and quietly.

You have faced him with the matter and he knew that it bothers and annoys you, moreover tell him that the matter does not only bother you but also it is prohibited if there is no need, necessity, or work.

Tell him that you expect that he would set limits to these relationships so as not to exceed the professional relationship.

The relationship may include greetings for the `Eids and Ramadan which is general and cannot be taken badly where some people consider it recognition of the favor.

At the same time —instead of wasting your energy and thought in jealousy— try to know the cause of these relationships, if they are due to a personal matter.

Your husband may love renewal and variation or maybe he likes a certain style of discourse and behavior or suchlike, so you have to know which things attract him to do it.

For example, if he likes variation and renewal, why not?! Change the style of your clothes, the places of furniture, invent new ways of cooking, and new matters in which you spend your times. Make him feel that there is always something different everyday, no matter how small it is.

If he likes a certain way of talking, behaving, or clothing, try to get used to it, at least before him.

There are certain matters make a husband love his wife, and each man has a key which if a wife knows it, she will possess his heart and soul. So, search for this key and use it intelligently and wisely.

If you can attract him and make him attach with you more and more, then he shall not think of any other relationship.

It is very important to think wisely in his work because there are certain matters entail that he communicates and talks to women.

If you always complain and grumble of this matter, he will be very upset and feel that you do not understand or appreciate his work, which could cause problems and disputes between you. This is not what you want, is it?

Remember his other good deeds, morals, and the qualities for which you married him because frequent remember of others' defects turns a good person into an abhorred and a bad person.

Do not make your desire in attracting him turns into a prison to lock him, but take into consideration the times which he likes to sit alone because men like to be alone sometimes.

Therefore, give him what he needs and then he shall feel that you are interested even when you are away.

May Allah bless your marriage and grant you happiness and stability.

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