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Avoid failure succeeds

Prof . Zaid Mohammed Al-Rommany

Published On: 12/12/2020 A.D. - 26/4/1442 H.   Visited: 3335 times     



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Avoid failure succeeds


There are people who are unable to concentrate their thinking, who begin to learn this thing and that, then learn something third, but who never learn anything from all of this, despite their strong desire to learn; because they are unable to absorb the necessary information, thus settling into their minds that they are deprived of the mental preparation enjoyed of others.


However, they often fail because they have more mental capacity or mental readiness than they need to succeed; one of them would be like a powerful car whose driver turned its engines, its brakes were locked, he runs out a great amount of fuel without advanvung one step further.


One day, one of the students complained about his lack of ability to concentrate his mind; he spends hours after hours in the lesson, but he cannot limit his mind to the subject he remembers or researches, and the analysis proved that he was forced to choose that study from his father, then his subconscious revolted on that control situation, he acted the brakes to disrupt the way, activity is restricted, no matter how much mental effort is exerted; because of that secret passive resistance that he resorted to from where he did not feel; For his courage to be frank with himself and his father.


If the inability to concentrate or restrict your mind is the reason for your personal failure, I advise you to face the divisions in yourself, and the muffled opposition in your bed, and then work to solve it with a mind and mind, and trust that your mind is no less capable than any mind, that your readiness is at its best, but that you have to face reality, and do not hesitate to make the necessary adjustments, and if that leads to the anger of wanting to please them, and then you will feel very happy in your self-interest and in your life, you have the ability to focus your mind.


In the book "How to Earn Wealth and Success?" There is a second type of failure due to the feeling of the owner that someone is watching him to put his work and efficiency in the balance, if that is the case, you should look for the reasons that paralyze your efforts, you may be a human being whose conscience is very sensitivity, care, attention and passion in order to do the best you can in your work, and you are afraid to fall short of the great purpose of success in the eyes of your examiners, so you get confused and stumble, so you have to track the traces of that control to your childhood, and try To know who was lurking in your lapses in order to blame you and violence in the wrong or kind, and who threatened you with the slightest shortcoming, and threatened you with punishment and defamation, and left you with a plunder of fear, humiliation and oppression.




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